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Jom Jadi Pendengar Yang Setia..

Assalamualaikum..Petang niy nak ajak korang wat something lahh..Wat ape??
Jom kita jadi pendengar yang setia. Heehee.. Sememangnye kan dah jadi tabiat semua orang yang lebih suka bercerita tentang diri sendiri daripada mendengar. Haa..tapi kan kalau asyik korang yang bercerita tanpa bagi orang lain bercerita mesti suasana akan jadi tak syok, hambar je. Malah, untuk orang jadikan korang sebagai kawan pn sure dia akan fikirkan dua tiga kali. Oleh itu korang2 sekalian, belajarla untuk jadi pendengar yang setia.
Bagaimana caranya????? Jom kita semak sama-sama..

                             
  • Apabila orang bercerita tentang ape pn masalah janganlah korang jadi macam batu, takde perasaan pulak an..bagilah respons dengan apa yang dikatakannya. Paling tak pn anggukkan kepala & sebagainya.
  • Berilah perhatian penuh ketika mendengar kata-katanya & janganlah sekali-kali menyampuk.
  • Lebih bagus lagi kalau korang tanya soalan sikit untuk tunjukkan minat korang dengan apa yang diceritakan nya.
  • Setelah hubungan korang dengannya bertambah rapat barulah korang sikit-sikit ceritakan masalah yang korang pulak hadapi. Tapi ingat, jangan pulak sampai membebankan. Jadikannya sebagai tempat korang share masalah bukan sebagai tempat korang bergantung tau..
Cara terbaik untuk korang berikan respons adalah korang katakan padanya korang setuju dengannya dan caranya sungguh bijak. Pujian tu bagilah dengan ikhlas & tak perlu lah nak paksa diri memuji. Yang benar katakan je. Jangan terlalu sombong & ego untuk meluahkannya. Dengan cara niy , ia boleh membuatkan orang yang berinteraksi dengan korang berasa bangga & selesa bersama korang.

Haa..amacam? Kita dah tengok kan sikit cara nak jadi pendengar yang setia. So, SELAMAT BERAMAL.
Hehe. PeaCe !!

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Assalamualaikum..
Agak Dah Bace tu komen-komen laa..
Hehe..Ce Komen Ce Komen..

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